My Declaration of Principle: 16. Being Equally Responsible for All

The 16th Principle I am committing myself to live by comes from the realisation that by the virtue of me being in this world – my responsibility does not only extend to my own Mind / my own Life, but to the minds and lives of everything and everyone of this earth and so my commitment is to extend this awareness to all of humanity to work together and live together to make this world heaven on earth for ourselves and the generations to come.

Being equally responsible for all come from the realization that we are all part of the same one reality. This means that whatever we do individually and also collectively, we can never escape the consequences of our actions, not even after we die. Lets say that we have no idea about what happens after we die. This means that the chances that we either no longer exist or still exist in another form after we die are 50/50. Now regardless of this, we know that the consequences that we left behind on Earth are still existing even after we die. Would you rather gamble and hope you stop existing after you die, or would you rather make sure that how you live right now is aligned with what is Best for All? The last option is obviously common sense here and if I can offer a suggestion, I would definitely suggest everyone to take this question really seriously and make an informed decision about how you want to live your life, because everyone only really gets one chance to show who one really is as life here on earth.

Living according to this realization means that I in practice share realisations and solutions with others and that my primary goal in creating relationships with other people is to stand as an example of what is best for all and help others to see the common sense and support them with their own alignment with the Principle: do not ignore and do onto others as you would not want to be ignored or done onto you in their place. This also includes daily writing and sharing on the internet and working towards bringing people together under the one Principle that is Best for All.

The main obstacle in all this is of course our own mind consciousness system with thoughts, mind constructs, feelings, emotions and habitual patterns, that is quite extensive and requires from each one to walk the process of self-honest self-correction, through observing self, writing and applying the correction. This is the process where we all have to support each other and make sure that we stay self-honest and constant in applying ourselves every day until it becomes our habit to do what is Best for All in our every breath. And we also have to change the system in a way that we can ensure to all a Dignified Life. So, lots of work to do! Chop, chop!

Follow this link to see the full list of principles I am committing myself to live by.

Day 131 - Making things personal VS standing as a solution

Previous blogs are in Slovene.

One of the big problems of human beings is that when we realize that there is a problem, a consequence that is not acceptable, we tend to get emotional (angry), start searching for someone to blame and then blame others for it and demand that others find a solution and do something about it. This approach will never solve anything!

What we must do whenever we realize that there is a consequence going on (that is not acceptable and not what is best for all Life) is, that we take self-responsibility for it by finding a solution ourselves and then standing as that solution, standing as an example and showing to others how the problem will be solved when we all align our lives to the solution, without pointing fingers and making it personal.

I forgive myself that I accepted and allowed myself to wish / want / desire to blame and judge others about the points that I see are not acceptable. When and as I see myself wishing / wanting / desiring or doing this - I stop and breathe. I realize that this will only make more conflict and not solve anything. Therefore I commit myself to stop blaming and judging others, but to instead look at myself in self-honesty and correct my living according to what is best for all Life and to then instead of making things personal, rather stand as an example of how all must lives/ be a living solution. When I point out things that are not acceptable I do not blame a person but show and explain the unacceptable pattern itself and show / suggest with my example the solution that must be lived so that the point is directed in a way that is best for all Life.

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize that the only constructive way of focusing my attention on a problem is when I look for the primary cause that led to the unacceptable consequence. I realize and understand that only by finding / diagnosing the primary cause of the problem, I will ever be able to effectively implement a practical solution, by my own example, that will support what is best for all Life. I commit myself to only focus on problems from the starting point of finding the primary cause so that I can effectively realign myself and the problem towards a solution that is best for all Life.

I commit myself to always speak about the pattern when I speak about the problem, not the person or the one who is causing the pattern as I know and understand that this will only cause reactions and conflict, where the attention is then taken away from the problem as the pattern itself and so things get personal because blame and judgment is involved.

I recommend listening to this interview about why and how do we make things personal within our minds: